To those of you who feel that i'm unattractive... | hippiesamurai's Blog

You know...I have no I idea why i'm typing this out. Not many people read & comment on my blogs so why bother? Well...I have something to say here. I can no longer keep quiet about this. So i'm about to, as they say, "let it rip!". Nothing bad has happend to me recently so i'm not upset by any means. This is something that has been a loooooooong time coming!

To the women who are bothered by my looks, to the women who think i'm unattractive, to the women who think i'm not dating material because I don't look the part of a man you normally go crazy over...you can kiss...my...ASS!!

I may not look like George Clooney or Brad Pitt, but you know what? I don't have to look like them! I have my own kind of sex appeal! And if you can't dig that, get the fuck out of my way & move on! All the time I hear & read what women look for in a man when it comes to his looks. It sickens me! Because it's always this matinee idol kind of looking guy. Like that Robet Pattinson cat from those Twilight movies or Christian Bale. Some women love long hair on a guy, some women love a man who is really in shape, some women love a man with tattoo's & piercing's...it's a very particular man alot of women are looking for.

I don't have long hair, I don't have tattoo's (I like tattoo's. Just don't have any of my own yet) & i'm in ok shape. Now if you find the things I just listed here to be average or unattractive, again, you can kiss my ass! I don't have to fit your perception of what a perfect man looks like. Again, I have my own kind of sex appeal! I'm handsome, cute & very sexy! I may not fit your perception of what handsome, cute & sexy is, but dig, I don't have to!

When I say i'm the "shaman of SeXy", I mean that shit! lol And alot of women agree with me! It's nothing egotistical when I say such a thing. Because you have to love yourself. You have to be confident in yourself.

Overall, besides my looks, the most attractive thing about me is my personality. I'm kind, funny, very caring & affectionate. I'm what you would call "the nice guy". But nice guys, historically, always seem to finish last unfortunately. Life is not a race, it's a marathon! And I don't care about being the first person that passes the finishing line. I do my best to get by. And doing your best & being your best, is all you can really do. Constantly trying to meet the unreal expectations of others, will only hold you back from getting to the promised land. In this life, it's best to be yourself. But because of the society we live in, being such a thing is unpopular. You're almost forced into being someone you're not just so certain groups of people will accept you.

I'm not one of those people. I always have & always will, stay true to myself! I'm a one man rock band! Being yourself, is incredibly SeXy in my opinion!

Can you dig that?